I am spending my day at the schools today helping to promote a fundraiser for our bands. I don't mind, and I even enjoy the opportunity to see my kids during the day. I enjoy being able to see them in their own environment. It's part of the reason I enjoyed subbing so much. The kids always enjoyed catching a glimpse of me during the day as well. Thomas, in particular, loved having me around. I remember so many instances of him incorporating me into his day.
I've always tried to respect my kids and their need for space. As high school students, they already know that their dad is always there, and honestly I'm at the high school a great deal as well. Today though, I'm also at the middle school. I knew the schedule somewhat, and when it was time for 7th grade to eat lunch I decided to walk towards the cafeteria. About half way there, I ran into Thomas. I stopped and said hello, and asked if it was okay that I walk with him. His answer was, "no." To be honest I was surprised and definitely a little sad. Not so sad that I'm going to make an issue of it. He is certainly entitled to all of it. It's not surprise that these days come...it's part of the process of them growing up. I'm grateful for all of our experiences, but I miss those days when I was the center of their world!
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