Last Friday we received word that Robert's departure date has changed. He is now scheduled to leave a week earlier than we were originally told. This is not terribly surprising given how things have worked up to now, and Robert is definitely ready to go.
This past weekend, we went to visit Andrew's parents for Father's Day. I'll be honest, it made me emotional at times, and I know Andrew's mother realized the reality as well...she even said so. Although Andrew and Robert are going back to his parents next week while the younger two are on a church trip, this was the last visit with all of us. This was the last time Andrew's parents will be with all three grandchildren at the same time for quite awhile. My mother-in-law even mentioned it might be the last time ever. While I hope that is certainly not the case, I also acknowledge that my father-in-law is declining, although not rapidly. We don't know when Robert will be able to have leave for a visit, and then getting Robert to PA could be challenging to see them (although we will certainly do our best). I am grateful that I will not be along with them next week when he leaves, because I know Andrew's mother will be very emotional. My own mother is becoming emotional as well and that is unlike her.
I know these changes are coming on the horizon, and while I think they are good changes, I know it is an adjustment!
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