One thing I have come to understand over the years is the uniqueness of sibling relationships. In my own sibling relationship, my sister and I would certainly not be friends, but we are sisters. There are shared experiences that no one else has. Regardless of anything else, she has always been my little sister. We love our children unconditionally no matter what, and we understand the parent/child relationship on both ends. Spouses, significant others, friends...they may come and go. Sibling relationships are unique.
It was especially evident to me this weekend, seeing how excited Catherine and Thomas were about their brother. Catherine tends to keep her feelings a little close, but Thomas is an emotionally sensitive child. He has been excited about all things military, and especially Navy things for quite some time now. As we left Robert on base Friday evening, I asked the kids if they had enjoyed seeing their brother. They both responded yes, and Thomas added, "I wish it could've been longer." I'm glad we were in a dark car, because my heart broke a little and I had to fight tears. For all of the crap the kids have been subjected to because of Robert's poor decisions, he is still their big brother and they still look up to him. I hope someday Robert comes to truly understand not only everything he put them through, but how important he is to them. I think he is on that path now, but I truly hope it happens someday!
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