He's changed

As I was back to school last week, it was fun seeing some of the changes that occurred in the kids over the summer.  I think it is especially true in this year's sophomores.  My son is no exception.  He is such a different person.  He is definitely no longer a boy.  I thought this was true last year, and maybe it was, but not like this year.  Andrew and I are really so proud of the way Thomas is handling himself.  He seems to have gained some confidence in how he handles himself.  He used to be terrified to talk to his teachers, but now he seems to be developing relationships with them.  He seems more focused and dedicated when it comes to his school work.  I know this probably won't be the case about everything all year, and I know things won't be perfect.  But by this time last year, he already wanted to be "done" with school.  We will take what we can get.  He's also physically matured in his stature.  Not only is he taller, but he is stronger, and he knows he can physically handle tasks that are assigned to him.  He is much more patient with himself and his surroundings.  These are all good things.

At the same time, his social maturity is not there yet.  Sometimes when we talk that little boy comes out again...and it isn't just because I am his mother.  The friends he is still choosing...not awesome.  I worry about these things, just like I worry about the fact that Catherine seems to purposely choose NOT associating with people.  Parenting is the most challenging and emotionally gut-wrenching thing I have done.  Sending daily prayers to parents and kids everywhere!