An unexpected trip

Yesterday morning I received a call from Andrew.  Overnight Sunday, Andrew's dad took a significant turn.  The hospice nurse yesterday was concerned that it was the end, and recommended that Andrew not leave.  I worked 1/2 day, and then I headed over.  We couldn't have Thomas missing an unlimited amount of school.  Our sweet pup and I loaded up the car and arrived around 8:00.  Andrew's dad was asleep the entire evening, although I did get to see him open his eyes this morning.  It was heart wrenching to watch Thomas say goodbye this morning.  I was grateful to hear that Andrew FaceTimed with Catherine so that she could also say good bye.

Thomas and I were on the road home by 9:00 this morning.  Thomas had a doctor appointment scheduled this afternoon.  That ended up being what pushed my emotions over the edge...we forgot to take the necessary forms with us!  This is a new doctor, and I'm sure they wondered about the crazy woman standing there in tears over forms!  In addition to being emotionally drained, I hadn't slept well Sunday night while Andrew and Thomas were at the game, so I was just exhausted.

I'm grateful that we didn't have to worry about Andrew getting there and trying to see his dad.  I'm grateful we had the opportunity to say goodbye, and I'm grateful for all of the memories.  The hospice nurse confirmed this morning that it could be today, it could be next week.   I'm sending prayers it will be peaceful, and that it is sooner rather than later.  I know how hard it is on Andrew and his mom to see his dad suffer.  I'm also hoping everyone can get a good night sleep tonight!