Tuesday, October 25, 2022

The end of the month

Unlike previous Octobers, I truly feel like this month has absolutely crawled along.  In some ways, that isn't a bad thing as October is generally my favorite month of the year.  We've had amazing weather in many ways.  We had some chilly days, but we also had lots of days in the 70's.  While I don't always love it being that warm, especially in October, I do appreciate that we haven't had to use the heat much.  It's been truly lovely.  Today though, might have been the end of the 70's, and that is okay too.

A year ago today my father-in-law passed away.  I understand Andrew's feelings about the day.  The days of Fall bring back that year nine years ago when my dad passed away.  Andrew and I have enjoyed a quiet evening.  I'm grateful for these days.

As we head into the holidays this year, I'm feeling a little melancholy.  I still miss our large family Thanksgivings so very much.  We are hosting again this year, and my sister has already announced that she won't be coming because she doesn't want any "obligations" for that weekend.  Kind of a crappy way to see spending a holiday with your family.  I think it's more awful for my mom though, but I know Mom appreciates coming down here.  I just miss the big family gatherings and getting to see everyone.  I also very much miss having our kids at home, but I think it will help to make the days even more special!

Only a few days left in this month that is taking forever!

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