I don't often feel this way...I am pretty happy and content in my own skin. My husband and I are fairly different people, but maybe that is what makes our marriage so wonderful! One of our biggest differences is in the worrying...I do and he simply doesn't. Trust me when I tell you that I have to really focus on pushing the worries out...and most of the time I just can't do it. He is very quick to admit he doesn't worry. He can only control what he can control and the rest just can't be worried about. Right now I am very envious of that.
At the same time, I recognize we can't both function that way. Because he doesn't worry and nothing EVER bothers him, he assumes things don't bother others...like his sometimes forgetfulness or lack of communication...or running late (he doesn't worry so he gets there when he gets there). These things DO sometimes bother others, so that is where my worrying and planning is an asset I suppose. Trying to remember all blessings today, big and little.
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