Today would've been Tim's birthday

Today would've been my brother-in-law's birthday.  I know it has to be hard on my in-laws, coming less than a month after his passing.  My mother-in-law is very strong and she will get through this, although I know it is really, really hard on her.  My father-in-law is not holding up as well, and it is accelerating his dementia.  I worry about them both, but right now there is no consideration to moving here, or moving closer.  While my brother-in-law was often challenging, today I choose to remember the good things, and hope he is having a happy birthday in heaven.