I could really use a nap

I'll be honest, I could really use a nap.  I'm pretty darn tired, and my lack of restful sleep is not from lack of trying.  Yesterday I had just closed my eyes for a quick nap when Andrew got home, and then I tried going to be nearly an hour early last night, but my kids had other plans...and they are part of the problem as well.

I actually did say good night to the kids and go to bed an hour early.  But Andrew wasn't home yet, and all hell broke lose after I went to my room.  About five minutes after going to bed I heard screaming.  They were physically fighting.  It infuriates me.

To a certain extent, these two have always been this way.  Thomas finds ways to push her buttons, and Catherine reacts with physical pushing.  Andrew and I actually suspended them from the swim team for three days a week before Christmas.  It doesn't seem right now as if they have learned much.  We have currently taken away all cell phones and driving privileges, and they will have to earn the right to participate in marching band together.  We've explained if they can't behave together, than they can't be together at events.  No more bus riding...they will have to hang out with me while I run errands.  And spare time?  It will be spent scrubbing and cleaning.  Maybe they will figure out it's just easier to get along.

Parenting teens takes more mental and emotional strength than I ever imagined.  At the same time, it is so important not to give in and just let them be monsters and get their way.  I am exhausted.